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Kid Management: The Truth

The truth of kid management:  1. There is no short-cut to teach children. For example, if the child is weak in maths, then we hire a math teacher to teach him. Then, the child can never improve. 100% guarantee.  I have taught more than 1000 children from 4 years to 18 years throughout my career.  My parents think that their kids are weak in maths and the parents start to source for math teacher. I tell you, your kids can never be improved.  2. If you want your kid to improve his / her mathematics, the only way is parents (YOURSELVES).  For example, every time you go out with your children, you can try to incorporate maths in the real life.  With the help of teachers, I guarantee, the results improve substantially.  3. PARENTS, YOU SHOULD NOT GIVE EXCUSES TO YOURSELF. NOT THE CHILD. THE CHILD LEARN FROM YOU ONLY. LIKE FATEHR LIKE SON.  Example, I have come across that 60% of the top management's sons have problems.  Re...

Kid management: Respect kids' model of the world

As an adult, we must respect everyone in the world. I respect my previous boss to guide me to be a better teacher now. I respect my parents for sending me to Canada when I was 13 years old. (To be honest to you, I blamed them in the beginning.Now, I would have to say thank you to them) I respect all of the unsung heroes in the world. After I have two cute baby boys, I realised that we must respect our kids. Few years back, I enjoy reading newspaper on my Iphone when my kids were with me. Slowly, my kids grabbed my iphone to play with it. I scolded them fiercely. But, guess what, nothing had gone better. I stopped using my iphone when I am with my kids except for answering the phone call. Then, everything changes overnight. My kids stopped asking for my phone to play. Last week, when I gathered with my relatives during one open house event. I realised it all of the kids played with ipad, iphone, samsung and other gadgets. Two of my kids never touched the electronic devi...

My personal experience 1:

If you always do what you have always done, you will always get what you have always got. To be a Master Trainer in English throughout Malaysia, I learn that: Example 1: One child who does not like to read Bahasa Malaysia or English, you keep scolding him. To be a teacher, what will you get? Yes, you will be angry and frustrated. At the end of the day, you don't get your problems solved. I think I am borned teacher because when I teach, my frustration disappears in the thin air. If you ask me to entertain friends and customers. I have no interest so that I can never be a salesman. NEVER EVER. First, I try to understand what children want and why don't they study? Second, I start to ask about students' interest and forget about his studies first. Third, I will research more about what the children like. I.e. The child said that he likes to play with angry birds game, I will try to study about the game. Fourth, the everything about the same and convert ever...

给父母的一个测验

给父母的一个测验                         在现今的社会,考试似乎变成了孩子们的“专利”。这是一个给为人父母者的自我测验。当你静下心来,认真思考每一项问题时,或许你会发觉,随着时代的不同,原来父母所要扮演的角色越来越多样化,也越来越具挑战性。             其实,这个小测验并没有对或错的答案,也不是为了要评估父母的表现。我只希望可以帮助父母在调教孩子时,多一些思考的方向。(诚心希望每位父母可以认真思考每一项问题。) 1 )我经常和孩子谈天及讨论孩子感兴趣的话题吗? 2 )我有常常拥抱孩子或亲抚孩子以表达我对他们的爱意吗? 3 )我会经常放下手上的一切工作,坐下来认真耐心聆听孩子说话吗? 4 )每次我回到家看到孩子,是否一定会问以下的这几个问题?        一、你吃饱了吗?二、冲了凉吗?三、功课做完了吗?四、要考试了 …… 有读书吗? 5 )我会经常批评孩子,对孩子发脾气吗? 6 )我会常常急着教训孩子而忽略了应该先了解问题吗? 7 )我会认为赞美将宠坏孩子吗? 8 )当有人称赞我的孩子时,我会在孩子面前否定对方的称赞吗? 9 )我会否在孩子有好的表现时,不但视而不见,反而还批评他呢? 10 )我是不是常将孩子与其他的孩子比较,或常与他的兄弟姐妹作比较呢? 11 )孩子参加越多的补习,上越多的才艺班,就会变得更优秀吗? 12 )我是否会细心、认真、深入地了解孩子的想法与感受呢? 13 )我会相信自己的孩子已经没有希望,或认为他已经无法改变吗? 14 )对于孩子,我是否会像对待成年人一样,有礼貌又尊重他来和他相处呢? 15 )我会常对孩子摆出“高高在上,你必须听我说”的姿态吗? 16 )孩子在我的心目中,是否真的只有缺点而没有任何优点? 17 )我会常常限制及否...

How to motivate your kids

If you want your child to be a stellar student, don't limit learning to the walls of his classroom.  Although the skills he's learning there are crucial to his intellectual and social growth, your child needs your help to open up the world of ideas.  His renewed  joy in discovery  will transfer to his schoolwork, so you'll boost his academic achievement too! Fill your child's world with reading.  Take turns reading with your older child, or establish a family reading time when everyone reads her own book.  Demonstrate how important reading is to you by filling your home with printed materials: novels, newspapers, even posters and placements with words on them. Encourage him to express his opinion, talk about his feelings, and make choices.   He can pick out a side dish to go with dinner and select his own extracurricular activities. Ask for his input on family decisions, and show that you value it. Show enthusiasm for your child's interests...

A test for parents

1. Do you talk and discuss with your kids daily? 2. Do you hug you kids daily to send a message to them that you love them? 3. Do you listen to your kids patiently daily? 4. Do you ask your kids the following questions daily: a. Have you eaten yet? b. Do you take a bath? c. Have you completed your homework? d. Have you prepared for your examination yet? e. What is your score for your examination? 5. Criticize your kids and scold them for being slow of doing something? 6. Do you scold your kids before asking them for explanations? 7. Do you think that you shouldn't praise your kids too much? 8. When somebody praises your kids, do you respond with some negative statement? I.e. Your son is so well-behaved. Then, you said that he is very naughty at home. 9. When your kids do something good, you never praise them and criticize them. I.e. Your kids' BM has improved 2.5% from the last examination. You scold them why don't you score 80% and above and change to another ...